Man Demands Paternity Test After Discovering His Wife’s Affair With His Brother, She Refuses, Causing Tension in the Whole Family [Update]

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    r/AITAH 15 hr. ago Academic-Brief721 Update - WIBTAH for asking a paternity test because I don't remember getting her pregnant
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    I got a lot of DMs asking for an update. I'll be seeing a lawyer this week, and then I can share more. I checked her phone (I'm not proud of it), and yes, she and my brother "bonded" over feeling like lonely spouses who were neglected by their partners. While I was away for my work trips, he would tell his wife he was working
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    night shifts and would have. "sleepovers" at our place. They both acknowledged how the arrangement felt both right and wrong, as neither of them wanted to leave their spouses but still enjoyed the physical and emotional aspects of the affair.
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    When I confronted her, she got angry about me going through her phone and said she felt violated. Honestly, I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. She insisted the baby is probably mine because we've been having quickies (according to her it happened more than once) when I was half-asleep, and she said, "I
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    only wanted your baby." I told her I don't believe a single word she says. I told her she needs to move out, and we'll figure out what to do after a paternity test. I also told her I'm canceling all her extracurricular activities because they're not my responsibility anymore. She said I'm financially abusing her, but to be honest, I really didn't care.
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    I told her I'd be coming to her next baby appointment because I need to talk to our family doctor. She's currently staying at her best friend's place. Today, she messaged me saying she's spotting and blaming me for it, claiming I've stressed her out and increased her chances of miscarriage. She said I'm a
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    father and an abusive spouse. Honestly, I'm not even sure if she's ever been pregnant. I asked if she needed a ride to the hospital or her friend's address so I could take her. She didn't answer. So here I am. I blocked my brother from everywhere. I don't have a brother anymore.
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    gameboy330 • 15h ago Tell your brother's wife everything.
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    forgetregret1day • 14h ago Oh my goodness is she for real? I'm fascinated by cheaters who get all offended when they're caught and talk about having their privacy violated and try to play the victim in a situation they created for themselves. Then she has
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    the audacity to accuse you of being a bad or abusive. "father/partner"? She's so far up her own behind she's throwing out judgments she's in no position to make. I'm glad she's out of your house and while I'm sure this hurts you, at least you're clear on who she is and the
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    nasty levels she is prepared to sink to. Good luck and good riddance to her.
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    youmustb3jokn • 15h ago Wow. I'm sorry that is insane. Your brother's wife deserves to know. Even if by a miracle the kid is yours I would not get back together. It's bad enough to cheat but with your married brother?
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    gameboy330 • 15h ago I just can't believe she thought you were this stupid did she really believe that she gaslight you into believing that you were having this imaginary with her. life
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    She didn't even bother to have with you for real once to make it believable
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    • Bonnm42 14h ago Text her back and say "You cheated on me with my Brother. What you claim we have had is, by your own admission, while I was passed out. I do not remember having with you for months. This baby is
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    probably my Brother's. What stress you are facing is of your own doing. If you are bleeding, you should seek medical attention. Do not try and gaslight me into thinking this is my fault. This is your fault and NOTHING you say will make me think otherwise, so don't waste your time and energy."
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    It sounds like she is trying to get "proof" you are abusive. Send that text so it's crystal clear what happened and you have it in writing. Unblock your Brother, keep him muted and save any texts he sends you for the divorce. Same with your Wife.
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    • Medieval Hag 15h ago. I'll say the same thing I said. last time. Someone who didn't want to have with you sober isn't going to SA (because that's what it is) you in your sleep.
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    IF she is really pregnant it's probably your brothers or someone else's. Brother makes sense cause you share DNA and she could pass it off as yours regardless of how it looks. Definitely do the DNA test.
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    lusciousxogirl ⚫ 14h ago Bruv DNA test should be in order now.

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